Sexual education is often viewed as a sensitive topic – too mature for children and too inappropriate to learn in a classroom setting. However, in recent history the subject of sex has become less touchy, seeing as though our society has shifted from some of it’s conservative values. However, parents and curriculum alike still take the same outdated approach when addressing the topic with adolescents: don’t have premature sex! While there is absolutely nothing wrong with personally upholding this statement, it is not the most effective way to prevent some of the risks that premature sex presents.

Some parents may prefer that their teens remain abstinent to eliminate risks of teen pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases, but the reality is that over half of teens are sexually active by the age of eighteen (Planned Parenthood.) “The content in my sex ed class was very shallow,” explains Whitney Young student, Annika Chrobak-Prince’19. “It seemed like the curriculum was based around fear tactics rather than informing us on how to pursue sex safely.” So rather than advising against sex then abruptly ending the conversation, adults should provide helpful information, such as means of contraception, the importance of consent, and the aftermath of having sex.

“I think the infamous ‘talk’ between parents and their children is a lot less awkward when the adults encourage a dialogue,” expresses Karyn Rosman, the parent of a senior at Whitney Young. “Allowing them to ask questions eliminates a lot of the ignorance that can cause teens to make uninformed decisions regarding sex.” If you find it uncomfortable to have “the talk” with an adult in your life, take it upon yourself to do some research! Planned Parenthood describes itself as “the number one provider of sex education, reaching 1.5 million people a year.” Another helpful resource is iwannaknow.org. They provide in depth articles on topics ranging from relationships and dating violence, to supporting LGBTQ+ youth and addressing common myths. Look to either of these websites for help if needed.